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S. A. J. Lyttek, a multiple award-winning writer, always loved writing, but didn’t arrive at the profession in the typical manner. After college and graduate school, she plunged into government consulting. In this environment, she discovered a knack for writing tests, interviews and other measurements. That soon became the focus of her career—reigniting her love for the written word. Thus captivated, she spent evenings freelancing “fun” writing including short stories, poems, articles and cards. When her eldest was a toddler, she quit full-time work to stay home and write. Eager to spend more time with her children, homeschooling intrigued her. From preschool through high school, she homeschooled both sons while continuing to freelance. While an integral part of the homeschooling community, she developed and taught writing classes to a generation of homeschoolers. Married to her childhood sweetheart, Gary, Mrs. Lyttek loves to share her commitment to learners of all ages and her fascination with the written word.
I’ve studied French since the 7th grade. Most of my life in other words. I know and understand a lot about the language. I’ve taught it to homeschoolers. I’ve read the Bible cover to cover in French twice. I could tell you why some verbs take être (to be) as a helper for the past tense versus the predominant avoir (to have). I could explain some of the nuances of the lovely word chez, which really doesn’t have an English equivalent. Or I can wax on the inadequacies of Le Petit Prince when translated out of the original French. But, other than the summer I lived in France, the language doesn’t live and breathe in me. I can read it, I can hear and understand it (especially if a guy is speaking or singing—women just are harder to hear the breaks between words), but to talk, I have to think too hard. It doesn’t come naturally because I don’t live with it day to day.
Why do I mention all of that? Because I think that’s an image of what it’s like for Christians to think or heaven or our life in Christ here and now. Because we were born in sin, goodness and godliness are foreign languages. We can study them all our lives after accepting Christ. We can know exactly how God wants us to live. We can hear and understand His voice and what His word says to us. But, because we don’t live in it day to day, because we aren’t in heaven yet, it doesn’t come naturally. We have to think too hard. And sometimes, because it’s not easy, because we have to work to speak the language, we fall short. We’re translating the life we know into the language of the life to come and often our native tongue has no way to express the concepts of what will be.
As Paul expresses it in 1 Corinthians 13, “Though I speak with the tongues of men and of angels, but have not love, I have become sounding brass or a clanging cymbal.” We might know all the right words, truths, doctrine, but it can fail to translate into our everyday. We aren’t speaking the language of heaven if God’s love doesn’t flow through us and then out to the world. And when we try to speak God’s language without the actual language, it’s just noise.
I remember years ago when I used the Metro everyday to get to work, I’d often run into to tourists. Sometimes, those tourists spoke French. I would do my best not to eavesdrop, but I was so hungry to hear the language as it was intended to be instead of my feeble efforts, that I’d often listen in. On more than one occasion, the French held a degree of panic because the speakers couldn’t find their destination. How it thrilled me to use what I knew to point them in the right direction!
None of us on this earthly plane speak heaven’s language fluently. We’re trying. We’re learning. But we do a lot of stumbling trying to find the right word for what we want to say.
Even so, we can use what we have learned to help others. If people are looking for directions, but they don’t yet know how to communicate well, we can help them along and point them in the right directions. We need to use what we have, translate what we have.
If we do that, we echo, even if imperfectly, the heavenly choirs. And the Holy Spirit, makes up for what we don’t know and cannot say.
Because translating heaven’s words to those who are lost is always the will of our heavenly Father.
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Monday, per his request, Jeremiah learned a bit about driving stick shift. In this picture, he was cruising around the parking lot of our choice (it’s usually more deserted than most), passing by a variety of parked cars.
Within an hour, he’d mastered most of the basics and passed Gary’s impromptu course!
I cannot believe that my nephew’s visit is over and done. It seemed to pass us by in a blink of an eye.
In each of those previous paragraphs, I used a form of the verb “to pass”. It is one of those verbs that has multiple meanings in English and other languages. The words translated from Hebrew, Aramaic, and Greek into the word pass also have multiple meanings in Scripture. Things “come to pass” in both Old and New Testaments meaning that events have been fulfilled in such a way that things happen as God knew they would. People passed or traveled through the lands, winds passed over the earth, believers worried that God would pass them by. The angel of death passed over and passed through in order to create the Passover. Food was passed or shared in fellowship. The next king was found by walking or passing by the prophet Samuel. Time passed and people of fame or power, as well as geographic features, passed away. Ecclesiastes says that even the most noteworthy of human beings passes like a shadow.
But, the overwhelming majority of Biblical references refer to the passing of time, whether things come to pass or people, things, and animals pass away.
Time passes with every heartbeat or tick of the clock. Each thought, each breath, each step tells us that time is passing. Sometimes, when we’re in a season of trials or pain, we want the time to pass by, to zoom over the hardship. It’s the human response because the price of the fall, the cost of sin hurts us deeply. Even Jesus longed for the time of the trial and cross to pass by him. “He went a little farther, and fell on the ground, and prayed that if it were possible, the hour might pass from Him.” Mark 14:35, NKJV
But when the moments are good and shared with those we care about, we wish time had a brake pedal. Or at the very least, a clutch to slow the momentum. Of course, that only works if our season of life is level or uphill. If we’re heading into a valley of difficulty or trial, stepping on the clutch without the brake will cause us to pick up speed rather quickly.
Thankfully, some good moments seem to stretch time. When Karl, Erik, Jeremiah, and I played Catan on Saturday, it felt as if we had an abundant stretch of time to enjoy the game, but in reality, it was only about two hours. But the time felt full as if that was exactly what we were supposed to be doing at that place and time. (BTW, Jeremiah won in a stunning come from last to first victory!) I think that moments like that God opens time to its fullest to give us memory. But that’s just my opinion on why those times feel so different. Rather than time passing by, it seems we are passing within time.
We know, logically speaking, that one second is one second no matter how it’s spent. But as God is the creator of time and outside of it, I think He expands and contracts moments for His purposes just as He caused the sun to stand still until the battle was won.
If time is going to continue to pass by (and it will), weeks like my most recent one are some of the passing times that I will savor.
Myrtle, congrats on winning this week’s selection of books!
This week, our nephew Jeremiah will be visiting us. Because we’re expecting his arrival, Gary and I have cleared as much of our schedules as possible. While he’s here, I won’t be doing any tutoring and I’ll attempt to write only when he’s sleeping. That may sound half-hearted, but I have completed whatever I need to for deadlines I knew about and this blog will also be done and posted before he arrives. It’s just I know words attack me even when I try have their need cleared from my schedule!
We’ve also made the guest bedroom cozy and emptied several drawers so he can put his things away if he wants to. And while his response to my request for a food list was “I eat pretty much anything”, I’ve tried to stock things that my sons liked to munch on when they were teens and made sure I can cook or bake whatever else.
We want his visit to be as relaxing as possible. We also want him to feel at home while he’s here.
But the place you’re visiting, as nice (or not) as it may be is never home.
And that got me thinking about our lives here on earth. We are visiting. We are passing through. This is not our home.
The problem with life is that we don’t remember our true home. We feel the disconnect when things don’t go as they would in Eden or heaven. We know that we were made for something without all this pain. Because of sin, this world has so much brokenness. But because it’s all we truly know, we don’t see it a lot of the time. When we’re having fun, when we’re happy, when we’re surrounded by beauty, when love fills us, we can forget that this isn’t home. And then, we can get too comfortable. That would make us like the rich fool in Luke’s gospel.
16 Then He spoke a parable to them, saying: “The ground of a certain rich man yielded plentifully. 17 And he thought within himself, saying, ‘What shall I do, since I have no room to store my crops?’ 18 So he said, ‘I will do this: I will pull down my barns and build greater, and there I will store all my crops and my goods. 19 And I will say to my soul, “Soul, you have many goods laid up for many years; take your ease; eat, drink, and be merry.”’ 20 But God said to him, ‘Fool! This night your soul will be required of you; then whose will those things be which you have provided?’ Luke 12, NKJV
The man was foolish because he forgot he was visiting. He was just passing through. You’re allowed to relax and get comfortable when you’re visiting. You’re allowed to help out and be good company. You’re even allowed to see the sights and appreciate beauty where you see it. You just can’t forget that you’re not home yet.
CITIZENSHIP
Not of this world,
No, this world's not mine,
I am a part
Of the world divine.
A world beyond
The world we know
A world that keeps
This one in its folds.
All that said, I’m honestly looking forward to Jeremiah’s visit and wish it was a month instead of just a week!
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We’ve had much delightful company this summer. This week ended our visit with our son’s wonderful girlfriend, Sabine. We thoroughly enjoyed her visit.
But I’ve also had company I didn’t want this summer. The company of pain. It has been messing with my rest, my sleep, my motivation, and so on.
Therefore, I’m doing something today that I RARELY do. I’m recycling an earlier blog post. This one is just as true as the first time I posted it. In other words, this is still an issue between me and God. Is it better? I’d like to think so. I think I worry less than I used to, but I still worry way too much. And I think, I’m less likely to lunge ahead of God, but I’m sure I still do. Thus, the title and the theme fits. So, onto the recycled post from over ten years ago!
A Lesson I Keep Needing to Re-Learn
I feel really sorry for God sometimes.
I know that he’s big enough to handle anything we creatures do, merciful enough to forgive us, and patient enough to provide us with new learning opportunities, but if he wasn’t perfect the frustration levels would surely skyrocket. I’m quite grateful he is the one and only true God because if he were like some of the mythological gods, I’m sure I would have been lightning zapped by now.
Over the years of following my Lord, one particular area has plagued my growth. It results in two sets of behaviors which can hide the truth of the sin. The problem is I have issues with trusting God.
Oh, I talk a good game. And I even believe it. My head knows all the Bible truths about God’s integrity and holiness. He keeps his word. Has throughout all of history. But still for some reason my heart and soul refuse to believe those facts. Instead, I act in one of two ways.
Worry. This is actually the inaction reaction. Instead of trusting God or doing anything to change my attitude, (like pray), I agonize over what might be. This becomes particularly troublesome in the wee hours of the night. A thought wakes me up, often a thought about one of my sons, and instead of praying, the worry cycle starts. It feeds upon itself until each worry is out of proportion to the original thought. At this point, I often give in and pray because if I don’t, I won’t get any more sleep.
Self-sufficiency. This definitely means taking action. But this path to action goes back to the garden and the original fall. Here, my path says: God, I’ve got this. I can be god for this activity or this objective. I know good and evil and I have decided that path A is better than the path B you seem to be leading me towards. So I’ll take care of it.
Either of these can look good on the outside looking in. The second can look like I’m a hard worker, getting things done. They can even look like godly things. The first can look like honest concern and caring.
But God reminds me of the truth when I get serious. I need to trust him.
And he’ll keep me in school until I learn that truth.
This week’s winner is Sarah Taylor. Sarah, email me at [email protected] with your address so I can get your books off to you!
Next week’s prize offering will be a copy of Guzzy Goofball and the Homeschool Play from Outer Space. If you have kids or grandkids in the 7-12 age range, be sure to comment for a chance to win it!