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Tales of Fantasy, Mystery and Adventure Under the Influence of Christian Homeschooling

S. A. J. Lyttek, a multiple award-winning writer, always loved writing, but didn’t arrive at the profession in the typical manner. After college and graduate school, she plunged into government consulting. In this environment, she discovered a knack for writing tests, interviews and other measurements. That soon became the focus of her career—reigniting her love for the written word. Thus captivated, she spent evenings freelancing “fun” writing including short stories, poems, articles and cards. When her eldest was a toddler, she quit full-time work to stay home and write. Eager to spend more time with her children, homeschooling intrigued her. From preschool through high school, she homeschooled both sons while continuing to freelance. While an integral part of the homeschooling community, she developed and taught writing classes to a generation of homeschoolers. Married to her childhood sweetheart, Gary, Mrs. Lyttek loves to share her commitment to learners of all ages and her fascination with the written word.

 



Reviewing

9/16/2026 6:20:00 AM BY Susan Lyttek

I opened my email and sighed. The vet had sent a third request for a review regarding a routine appointment for our cat. It was exactly that… routine. Rating it as amazing or life changing just felt wrong.

Honestly, as an author, I have mixed feelings about reviews. It seems our world has gotten review-obsessed. I couldn’t even complete my transaction at the post office yesterday without choosing a rating for the service I was provided. Servers will tell us that their promotions or even the number of hours they are offered are based on the reviews left at the table kiosk. But, to be frank, to get more people to read my books I need more people who have read my books to review them because the algorithms depend on those ratings.

And I know for a fact that several who have read some of my books have not reviewed them. I know this because I have received cards, emails, or texts instead of the online review. And much of that kind of feedback relates to the frustration I felt from the vet’s request. It’s hard to be honest the way the review requests are structured. It’s often easier on your mind and sense of honesty avoid the review and offer a personal reaction instead.

It’s not that I blame anyone for choosing not to. The need for us to review each and every service offered is exhausting, and frankly, not realistic. It’s awful that we can’t say something was acceptable. We have to say everything was stellar, ideal, or perfect or we actually can endanger people’s jobs.

The Bible has a fair amount to say about reviewing, particularly reviewing our walk with the Lord.  “Examine yourselves as to whether you are in the faith. Test yourselves. Do you not know yourselves, that Jesus Christ is in you? —unless indeed you are disqualified.” (2 Cor. 13:5, NKJV) Examine me, O Lord, and prove me; Try my mind and my heart. (Ps 26:2, NKJV) The refining pot is for silver and the furnace for gold, But the Lord tests the hearts. (Prov. 17:3, NKJV) Do your best to present yourself to God as one approved, a worker who does not need to be ashamed and who correctly handles the word of truth. (2 Tim 2:15, NIV)

In other words, we should be assessing, on a daily basis where our hearts are. Are we truly following our Lord? Are we on the right path or have we meandered to the side looking at the daisies of life?

When we review or evaluate biblically, the goal is to be honest, not to sugarcoat our walk with generalities or comparisons. The only one we’re allowed to compare ourselves to is the Lord which guarantees that we can’t be stellar, ideal, or perfect on our own. Rather, the review is about the relationship, the effort to listen to His Word, and see if we’re better, even an iota better, today than we were yesterday. Are we growing? Or are we sliding into routine and misplaced contentment?

If the world’s obsession with reviews was similar, I think I could get behind it. Instead, it feels more like a grade school trophy for achievement—where everyone gets it so no one has truly earned anything.

Rather, when we see the traits displayed from Philippians 4:8*, one of my favorite verses, I think then the review is warranted. When the service we receive is excellent, when a behavior is unexpected (in a good way), or a product does it exactly what it claims to do, we should let people know that there still is goodness in this world.

 

*Whatever is true, whatever is noble, whatever is right, whatever is pure, whatever is lovely, whatever is admirable—if anything is excellent or praiseworthy—think about such things.