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S. A. J. Lyttek, a multiple award-winning writer, always loved writing, but didn’t arrive at the profession in the typical manner. After college and graduate school, she plunged into government consulting. In this environment, she discovered a knack for writing tests, interviews and other measurements. That soon became the focus of her career—reigniting her love for the written word. Thus captivated, she spent evenings freelancing “fun” writing including short stories, poems, articles and cards. When her eldest was a toddler, she quit full-time work to stay home and write. Eager to spend more time with her children, homeschooling intrigued her. From preschool through high school, she homeschooled both sons while continuing to freelance. While an integral part of the homeschooling community, she developed and taught writing classes to a generation of homeschoolers. Married to her childhood sweetheart, Gary, Mrs. Lyttek loves to share her commitment to learners of all ages and her fascination with the written word.

 



What I Wish I Knew When I Started Writing

11/4/2026 3:50:00 PM BY Susan Lyttek

I started writing this week’s blog and couldn’t finish it. Instead, this week’s offering is a slightly rewritten lesson from when I used to teach a high school creative writing class. Enjoy!

 

In Proverbs, there are several sayings that seem on the surface as opposites, but both are true. This parallelism is common in Biblical poetry. Writing lessons also have this type of parallelism.

Writing is easy: I am a perfectionist. I’m less of one now than when I was younger, but wanting everything to be just right has often stymied me.

  • No one writes perfectly
  • Writing a story is simply one more word
  • Go with the flow
  • Don’t sweat a word choice or scenario… just write it

Writing is hard: I also have lazy tendencies. In school, I rarely did more work than required unless the project really interested me or if it was of my own making.

  • Rewrites and editing sometimes just have to be endured and plowed through
  • Deadlines are just that. If you miss them, teachers, editors, publishers, and whoever else counts on you for your written work will not be happy. It will affect how you are perceived for the worse and might impact whether your future writing goes anywhere or not.
  • Some days you won’t feel like writing. Write anyway. It’s about work, not feelings.
  • When you edit, do your best to get the words right. Especially on the first page.

Follow the rules: Writing, as a craft, relies on certain absolutes. Just as a sonnet has to be fourteen lines, and dialog must be written in its format, writing in general, particularly for publication, has rules to follow.

  • Write to your audience.
  • Be diligent about your craft.
  • Study other writers.

Ignore the rules:

  • Some rules are rules just because ‘it’s always been done this way’. If you know your rules well and your audience well, you know when to break them.
  • Excellent writing is excellent writing. If you do that, rules don’t matter. Many bestselling writers ignored the rules of their day.
  • Today’s rules will be what to avoid in the next generation. You get there first.

Write to your audience

  • Books sell and stories get published by authors who know their audience
  • Know the market
  • Read what your audience reads so you can write something like it

Write for yourself

  • You are your best audience. Write what you’ve always wanted to read.
  • If you don’t love it, why write it? (Also, if you don’t love it, potential readers will see that in the way you wrote it.)

Meet and talk with other writers

  • Like minds can help you decide if a project is a good idea
  • Meeting with people who like to create helps you see that you can fit in

Don’t meet and talk with other writers

  • If you’re at work on a project, talking too much about it can actually kill your creativity. You can use up all the ‘energy’ talking about it.
  • Ideas come from everywhere. Don’t let your brainstorming become someone else’s idea.

Write every day

  • Regular writing makes you a better writer. It’s been proven time and time again.
  • The discipline to write daily will help you with the discipline to finish increasingly large projects.

Don’t write every day

As writers, we need creative input. To get that, we should

  • Read
  • Experience life

God did command the weekly Sabbath. Take a regular break to recharge. You will find yourself more creative because of it!

 

Still, haven’t reached my comment number for the prize, but I will say we’re getting close!