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S. A. J. Lyttek, a multiple award-winning writer, always loved writing, but didn’t arrive at the profession in the typical manner. After college and graduate school, she plunged into government consulting. In this environment, she discovered a knack for writing tests, interviews and other measurements. That soon became the focus of her career—reigniting her love for the written word. Thus captivated, she spent evenings freelancing “fun” writing including short stories, poems, articles and cards. When her eldest was a toddler, she quit full-time work to stay home and write. Eager to spend more time with her children, homeschooling intrigued her. From preschool through high school, she homeschooled both sons while continuing to freelance. While an integral part of the homeschooling community, she developed and taught writing classes to a generation of homeschoolers. Married to her childhood sweetheart, Gary, Mrs. Lyttek loves to share her commitment to learners of all ages and her fascination with the written word.
As I finished last week’s blog, I had no clue what I would write about next. I figured it would be whatever the Lord inspired or whatever was on my mind.
Whatever.
That word echoed in my thoughts. I heard with it disgruntled teenagers unhappy about the choices in front of them. Then, the word usually means, “I completely disagree with you, but I’m not going to do anything about it.” I also heard Philippians 4:8. In it, whatever means at all times and in all situations.
That’s where I’m going today. Lately, I’ve become a bit obsessive about this verse. It’s where I turn when life doesn’t feel right. It’s what I quote when someone complains about the news. (Honestly, I can’t pay close attention to the news without getting seriously morose.) It’s what I reread when the mood cloud descends. It’s what I meditate of when I can’t sleep. It’s where I turn when I hear about calamities happening to people I care about.
Is it easy? No, no and “choose your expletive or word of emphasis” no! Is it necessary? Absolutely.
Remember what comes before this verse in Philippians and who was writing it and when and where.
Before this, Paul commanded the believers to count it all joy and to rejoice in the Lord always. Paul was seizing joy from a Roman prison with a death sentence hanging over his head. And he was reminding his children in the faith that God is the author of the deep, abiding joy and contentment, available to all Christians.
But to get there, you need to change where you focus. If you focus on the effects of sin, corruption and the Fall in the world, you won’t experience the bubbling up to overflowing of God’s presence. You have to look at the whatever Paul recommends.
Finally, brothers and sisters, whatever is true, whatever is honorable, whatever is right, whatever is pure, whatever is lovely, whatever is commendable, if there is any excellence and if anything is worthy of praise, think about these things. (NASB)
Whatever is true. God’s word is true and truth. Jesus is true. The Holy Spirit will guide us into all truth.
We live in a world that likes to make its own truth. “What’s true for me might not be true for you,” is one phrase I’ve heard. Nonsense. Whether we like it or not (and often we don’t like it) truth is an absolute. It does not change based on personality or culture or generation. To fill ourselves with truth, we need to saturate our lives with the Bible. We need to memorize as much Scripture as we can so that it comes to mind whenever the anti-whatevers try to fill our thoughts.
Whatever is honorable. We don’t think a lot about honor in our world or our culture. In other cultures, age or wisdom might be honored or esteemed. Both are worthy of that honor according to the Bible. But anyone who acts Christ-like in any circumstance is worthy of honor. We need to read about Christian heroes of days gone by and tell others how they lived. Fictional heroes, too, can teach us about honor. The first that comes to mind is Sam in Lord of the Rings. He acts with honor no matter how difficult the circumstances are that surround him.
Whatever is right. Like truth, this is not personal opinion. In the days of the Judges, everyone did what was ‘right’ in his own eyes and it was an awful time of warfare, idol worship, depravity, and turmoil. Instead, the right we need to focus on is what God calls right. This right is the opposite of wrong. It puts others first. It seeks justice and compassion for all.
Well, this post is taking more words than I imagined when I began. Thus, it will continue next week!
Until then, think about… whatever.
Yesterday, I had a teeth-cleaning malfunction. All of a sudden, schmutz was on the mirror. I tried to wipe it away with my hand, but that made it worse. The area became cloudy as the toothpaste film spread. The more I rubbed, the worse it got. Fortunately, Gary always has cleaning solutions at the ready. He sprayed the mirror and wiped it into perfection.
I had already given this week’s devotional a title. I’m not sure how God engineered the circumstance, but it fits so well.
This will be the last week of posts about being created in the image of God. Not sure what my next theme will be and I’m open to suggestions.
Anyway, back to the opening scene. A lot of our efforts to clean ourselves up are like me wiping the mirror with my hand. The intent is right, but we can’t do it on our own. We need a cleaning solution beyond ourselves.
We are made in the image of God. That is truth. God himself states that at the creation. After belief in Christ’s payment and faith, we are remade in the image of God. But our image is covered with schmutz. Sometimes, it even appears shattered beyond repair. For now we see in a mirror, dimly, but then face to face. Now I know in part, but then I shall know just as I also am known. (1 Corinthians 13:12)
We can’t clean or repair the mirror. We just don’t have the tools or the solution. We don’t have that perfect spray that will enable us to see ourselves in God’s image as he sees us.
There is a solution.
If Paul had waxed on a bit about mirrors in his day, he would have talked about highly polished metals. They could get pretty good, but no where near as clear as our current mirrors. In Exodus, a long time before Paul wrote this, it talked about having bronze mirrors for the serving women. While they still might have been of bronze, (or brass, copper, silver) the ability to polish them would have improved a fair bit.
Even so, looking in a mirror only gave a basic idea of what you looked like. You could use one to change your hairstyle, but not tweeze your eyebrows, for instance.
As the mirror aged, it dimmed. Its ability to reflect diminished unless it was repolished.
However, Paul knew that God’s mirror didn’t have any of the limitations of the mirror’s he had seen. God saw the believers clearly and knew both how far they had come and how much they needed to grow.
In Christian jargon, cleaning and restoring the mirror is sanctification. God uses the solution of his Word, the conviction of the Holy Spirit, the blood of Christ and the fellowship with others in the faith to clean and/or repair the mirror. Some of us have been so wounded by ourselves and the world that our mirrors aren’t just dim, they’re shattered.
Each step closer to the image of Jesus removes a little of the dirt that covers us. Each step closer solders broken edges of the metal together. Step by step, polish by polish, the mirror’s surface becomes more complete and easier to see into.
Until one day, all our dirt will be removed, all our brokenness repaired, and we will know, completely and perfectly, how God had intended us be from the beginning of time. We will see ourselves as complete works of art and offer praise to God for restoring us to his original creation.
Each one of us is getting polished at a different rate. But we all experience the fixing of our mirrors.
Until that day, we see Him.
I’ve had a mind worm of this song for several days now. (Ask poor Gary who has heard it replayed multiple times!) But considering the theme I’ve been pursuing of Not God, yet in the image of God, it fits.
Here’s the link to the song: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=PGSvITdmrXM And if it’s not your style of music, mute the audio and read the lyrics in the comments below the video. TFK has generated some pretty potent poetry for this song.
We all live in the hunger for meaning, the longing to be somebody. The irony is that because we are created in the image of God, we are each somebody of extraordinary value and worth.
That doesn’t translate to the emotions or to how we see ourselves in the mirror though.
There are a lot of things we can blame for our improper perception. Sin, of course, and the fallen world we live in tops much of the reasons. The deceiver (and his servants) who likes to encourage any and all lies also plays into the faulty view of self.
Personally, I waffle between seeing myself as more wonderful than I am (maybe 25% of the time) and a miserable excuse for flesh (about 65% of the time). In the latter, I cry out like Paul did in Romans: What a wretched person I am! Who will rescue me from this body that is subject to death? Sometimes, as I transition between the two extremes, I actually see myself (somewhat) like God sees me. In those moments, I am grateful. In those moments, I see what God has already used me for and get glimpses of things He might have in store for me in the future.
I continue to work at expanding the time that I live under God’s POV. It is, as Jesus said, the easy yoke. When I am there, I don’t feel the compulsion to be somebody else. Nor do I try to be more or less of me than I am. Instead, I walk in his ways.
In order to do that, though, we have to fight the deceptions that come from without and within. The self-talk created from childhood on to cope with the evils and perceived evils of the world can often be our biggest obstacle. We all have lies and half-truths that we tell ourselves automatically. I like to remind myself (when I remember and don’t just default to listening) that I am God’s poem. He created me. Put a lot of emphasis on the word me when you read that and think in relationship to yourself.
God created each of us with intent.
He didn’t want me to be my neighbor, friend or sister. He didn’t want me to be such and such famous person or conquer the world. He made me because he wanted me and considers me to be a work of art.
And that is true of every single person on this planet.
You may know God slightly or have loved Him all your life. He still designed you down to the DNA that chose your hair color and the quirk in your personality that only a few people get.
The other lies come from without. Sometimes they come because we look around instead of keeping our focus on Jesus. That 25% of the time when I see myself as amazing, I’m often looking at people less fortunate or less gifted than me. That attitude can flip a 180 into the dumps when I see someone half my age who’s accomplished more than I ever dreamed possible. Either my highest highs or lowest lows stem from looking at others or at myself from a twisted perspective. To continue in the life where I am somebody to God, I have to look to God.
With my eyes on him and on heaven, repeating Philippians 4:8 over and over (to stay focused on godly things), I can begin to be the somebody God longs for. The one He used his finest tools to craft in his mind’s eye before time began.
And so can you.
Be God’s somebody.
Once again, I’m focusing on Philippians 4:8. I’m trying to keep my mind on God’s whatever, rather than the clutter and schmutz the world calls whatever.
I’ve gotten so obsessive about it, I bought two different things, a magnet and a tea towel, with the verse written upon them. The towel has cats, too, so a win-win. Currently, I only collect okapis and magnets. Maybe I’ll add Philippians 4:8 items to that mix. It is not a verse or a principle that I want to forget.
I need to see those words and remind myself that the brokenness around me is not what I should set my sights and thoughts upon.
Finally, brothers and sisters, whatever is true, whatever is honorable, whatever is right, whatever is pure, whatever is lovely, whatever is commendable, if there is any excellence and if anything is worthy of praise, think about these things. (NASB)
The next whatever is Whatever is pure. For some reason, probably years of advertising exposure, I see streams off cool and bubbling water whenever I read the word pure. (Hence today’s art.) And yes, having pure water is a good thing. Because if it is pure, that means it is 100% as it should be. It is untainted.
Unfortunately, there’s precious little that is pure in our world. We get glimmers of what purity means: a child sharing a cookie with a new friend without being asked or told to; a volunteer treating a dying man like he’s the most precious being in the world; a teen giving all of his first paycheck to help a family enduring hard times. Pure actions, like humility, don’t think of themselves. Instead, they see opportunities to do what Jesus might have done.
Whatever is lovely. This one’s a bit easier to come by. Even in the broken creation that surrounds us, there’s much loveliness to be found. A few of my favorites include: sunrise on the beach, the scent of a carnation or lilacs in spring, a wild horse at full gallop, the purr of a cat, an eagle gliding through the clouds, the words of a favorite song or poem, the roar of a thunderstorm (when safely inside!)
Whatever is commendable. Network news on rare occasion has added a good news element. I really wish that was the primary focus instead of dwelling on what has gone wrong today and could go wrong soon. A couple of the magazines that I subscribe to take this tack—looking for people who have done something amazing for others and portraying them. These fellow citizens of our planet have ranged from 8 to 98 and the sole criteria for being labeled commendable is they have each seen a need and done what they could to fill it. Often, when these people begin, it looks impossible, but they begin anyway. Like the boy giving his lunch to Jesus, they start with what they have.
If there is any excellence. When the word excellence is mentioned in the U.S., it generally refers to achievement. We hear about academic excellence, corporate excellence, or athletic excellence. When I googled, not only were a couple private schools named ‘Excellence’, but a barbershop and an automotive repair shop. And yes, we should strive for excellence in any of those areas and more. But the dictionary says, “the quality of being extremely good.” When Paul mentions excellence as something to ponder, he’s referring to God and anyone who acts Christlike. Jesus himself had corrected someone who used the word “good” as a form of address by saying, “No one is good but One, that is, God.” Therefore, if only God is good, only God has excellence as well.
If anything is worthy of praise. Psalm 18 says, I will call upon the Lord, who is worthy to be praised. And Revelation 4 declares, “You are worthy, O Lord, to receive glory and honor and power; For You created all things, And by Your will they exist and were created.” At all times and in all places and all circumstances, the triune God is worthy of our praise. Whenever the evils of this world and the trials that ensue plague our minds and emotions, turning to praise the one who created all things will help us see things clearly.
Thus, whatever happens today, think on God’s whatever and rejoice in the Lord always and again I say, Rejoice!