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S. A. J. Lyttek, a multiple award-winning writer, always loved writing, but didn’t arrive at the profession in the typical manner. After college and graduate school, she plunged into government consulting. In this environment, she discovered a knack for writing tests, interviews and other measurements. That soon became the focus of her career—reigniting her love for the written word. Thus captivated, she spent evenings freelancing “fun” writing including short stories, poems, articles and cards. When her eldest was a toddler, she quit full-time work to stay home and write. Eager to spend more time with her children, homeschooling intrigued her. From preschool through high school, she homeschooled both sons while continuing to freelance. While an integral part of the homeschooling community, she developed and taught writing classes to a generation of homeschoolers. Married to her childhood sweetheart, Gary, Mrs. Lyttek loves to share her commitment to learners of all ages and her fascination with the written word.

 



Becoming

6/17/2026 6:25:00 AM BY Susan Lyttek

Three days ago, my dad became 90. He entered a new decade that many people never see. And he still lives on his own, is a part of several social groups that meet either monthly or weekly, and bowls twice a week during the school year. In April he had one game in the 190s!

I am proud of the way my father has aged. Has he slowed down? Sure. But he hasn’t stopped. He has chosen to become a little better each day. He acknowledges when he gets stuck in a rut and often will take action (like a walk around the block) to get out of that rut. More importantly, he tries to live godly. His daily routine includes prayer.

Is he perfect? Of course, not. But more than just by age, he is becoming. As should all of us as we are sanctified and grow closer to Jesus.

The Bible has a lot to say about becoming. And becoming offers two paths. You can become corrupt or you can become like God. Everyone has turned away, all have become corrupt; there is no one who does good, not even one. (Psalm 53:3, NIV) And [Jesus] said: “Truly I tell you, unless you change and become like little children, you will never enter the kingdom of heaven. (Matthew 18:3, NIV)

To become all that God intends for us to become requires a sacrifice of our egos. We need to recognize that becoming who we were meant to be is not within our power. We cannot willpower our way to our true selves. Unfortunately, the sin within us fights that every step of the way.

Some days, it’s easier to live at the foot of God’s throne and stay in submission. Other times, we want what we want and we ignore the still small voice that encourages us to be something more, part of something and Someone bigger than ourselves.

Isn’t incredibly convicting that when we look back on our lives, that our best moments, the ones we felt most content to acknowledge, were the ones when we were least like ourselves? Those moments of becoming when Christ worked in us and through us revealing glimpses of heaven to us and those around us.

If any book of the Bible really talks about becoming, it is Ephesians. In its chapters we learn how to become the body of Christ, how to become a mature and functioning part of that body, how to become light and mirror the Light, and how to become unified—whether in marriage of community. Paul commits these truths about becoming to a group of believers that he loved. These were the people who cried with him when they knew the Spirit was leading him to danger in Jerusalem. Because he valued them, he didn’t want them to be content in who they had been, or even how they had changed thus far. He wanted them to continue—becoming even more different than the world around them.

When I was a teen, when I still didn’t believe who and what God is, my dad announced we were doing a family Bible study through Advent using prophecies from the book of Isaiah. The beauty of those words was an early tug at my heart that eventually led to me accepting Christ and pursuing faith. Dad’s becoming more Christ-like influenced me to take God a bit more seriously.

It only took another ten years and multiple witnesses.

But thanks, Dad, for an example of becoming before I ever wanted to. Happy birthday!